6 Ways to Make Other People We Liked

1. Sincerely interested in other people.
The first way to make others like us is to show interest in others. Interested in the other person could mean sociable and interact with others. It is closely related to the level of social intelligence that we have. The better the social intelligence that we have, will allow us to hang out and interact with others. This is
later that will make the other person enjoys ourselves. In addition, we will get more comrades within 2 months by becoming interested in other people than we earn in 2 years by way of seeking other people interested in you.

2. Smile
Prof. James V. Mc Connell, a psychologist from Michigan once said: "People are smiling, tend to be able to cope, teach and sell more effectively and raising the children were happier". Dear reader, with a smile to the people we meet, show that we are happy to meet with him. Sincere smile that means that we're feeling happy. And pleasure is a form of positive emotions that we can "transmitted" to others. Pleasant conditions is what enables us to interact better.
Well, what if at that moment we are getting into trouble? Force yourself to smile. Train ourselves to be able to smile down upon us a problem however. By forcing yourself to smile, will be able to relieve irritated / angry / sad that arise because of the problem.
Authors interested in an ancient Chinese proverb that says: "A man without a smiling face must not open a shop". What is the meaning of the proverb? Yaa? |. A smile given by a clerk, will make the buyer feel good for shopping in the store which in turn will become a loyal customer. Broader meaning is to smile at someone it would make people like us and all things associated with us (including our efforts).

3. Remember the name of a person
Sure that the average reader interested people to his own name on behalf of another person in this world? Therefore, in order that we are loved by others then we need to mention the name of the person when he met him. Well remember the person's name, and call it by name in a friendly tone. If that is done, it means we have to praise her.
Be careful, do not let one person's name, because it will cause unpleasant taste hearts of people who have a name. We also should not forget the name of the person we have ever met. It is indeed difficult. It could be because we rarely meet, or just met once with a long span of time. Can also be caused because we did not take the time, energy and concentration to remember someone's name. Therefore, in order that we are loved by others, let's practice to remember someone's name. Remember: "name has magic and is the property of that man".

4. Be a good listener.
God created man with one mouth and two ears. This means that we are asked to listen more than talk. Being a good listener. People prefer to a good listener than a good talker. Being a good listener is a skill and abilities are rare and hard to hold.
Dale carnegie warned that: "people who become your interlocutors hundred times more interested in themselves, desires, their problems compared with their interest in you and your problems"
Therefore, we need to learn and have the skills to be a good listener. Hopefully, I will attempt to write it in future.

5. Make the other person feel important
The last way is presented by Carnegie made someone feel important. If we are selfish, and is unable to provide the attention and respect to others, we will be doomed to failure. Ourselves feel important person and others is not a trivial menggangap a commendable attitude. It will lead to resentment towards us. People will tend to stay away from us.

6. Talking about other people's interests
As noted above, that people prefer and are keen to talk about things related to her. One is the interest he had. If you know that the person you love the person you are talking to a political problem, ask him to talk about the ongoing political situation. Show him that you are also interested in the political issues by providing a variety of responses. Encourage him to talk more about that, giving rise to the spirit within them.
The spirit to speak to us, and our desire to talk about the things that would later become his interest makes him like us. He felt comfortable and nice to hang out with us.